When a couple makes the decision to divorce, it can result in a tumultuous experience laden with multiple ups and downs. However, when the couple has children it can be even harder on the family. One of the biggest reasons why couples postpone moving forward with a divorce is because they fear it will have a negative impact on their children. Although studies show that children who are a product of divorce do suffer some short-term effects, according to research reported by Scientific American, kids generally adjust over time. Maybe one of the reasons is because of strict state regulations that emphasize the importance of two co-parents sharing parenting time, even though they are no longer in a relationship.
Background of Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines
The Indiana Supreme Court has adopted the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines (“Guidelines”)“based on the premise that it is usually in the child’s best interest to have frequent, meaningful and continuing contact with each parent.” The Guidelines provide a minimum set of standards of how parenting time should be split between both parents so that children can receive the benefit of having both parents in their lives. The Guidelines acknowledge that each family relationship is unique and give families room to adjust them to fit each family’s needs. A lot of research and time went into developing the Guidelines through direct input from mental health specialists and child development experts to ensure that children can benefit no matter what developmental age they are in.
Main Points Addressed in the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines
The crux of the Guidelines is the notion of cooperation between both co-parents. It is not uncommon for two parents to have differing views and values on how to raise their children. When both parents are in a committed relationship, it is easier to talk about and resolve these issues. However when the parents are no longer together, it can sometimes be difficult to address these issues without hostility. The Guidelines promote the following values for both parents:
- Communication: The guidelines urge parents to have open lines of communication with each other as well as their children. The Guidelines stress the importance of allowing each co-parent to communicate with their child with no interference from the other parent whether it is by phone, mail, e-mail, etc.
- Implementing Parent Time: The Guidelines state which parent should provide transportation for the child during the parenting time and the importance of adhering to agreed upon times for the visit.
- Changes in Scheduled Parenting Time: There will be times where one parent may have to change their agreed upon parenting time due to outside reasons, and in these situations parents should use reasonable judgment and should be flexible.
- Exchange of Information: Parents should exchange information about their children and be open to share information with each other.
- Resolution of Problems: The Guidelines provide ways to resolve disagreements that arise between parents regarding parenting time without court involvement.
- Withholding Support or Parenting Time: The Guidelines specifically state that neither parent should withhold child support or parenting time for a parent’s failure to comply with a court order.
The above is just a portion of what the Guidelines state about parenting time. If you have any questions about your child support agreement and parenting time you should contact an experienced Indiana parenting time lawyer to help you navigate through your rights.